FAQ
Who reviews my answers?
An AI built on Anthropic Claude reads each answer to write a reflection back to you. A human matchmaker reviews any match brief before it is sent. The AI does not introduce people on its own.
How long does the intake take?
21 questions. About 20 to 30 minutes if you take it seriously. Most are open-ended; a handful require at least 20 words because the AI cannot read intent from a sentence fragment.
When do I get matched?
When there are enough thoughtful intakes in your area to find a real candidate. We tell you your position on the cohort waitlist. No fake "thousands nearby" claims.
What gets shared with my match?
Only the 1-page brief and your first name. Raw answers are never shared with another user without your explicit consent. Photos shared only after both opt in.
Is there ID verification?
At GA, yes: gov ID + selfie liveness + photo verification. During early access, accounts are email-verified only and no matches are delivered. See /verification.
What is it going to cost?
Free during early access. After GA, $45 per match (refunded if the other person declines), or $99 per quarter, or a Concierge tier with deeper matchmaker review. /pricing.